18 year old dating 26
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They have their own place, get on great, and they've been together about 2 years. What do you think about 26 year old guy dating an 18 year. I've been a few dates with 18 year olds at 26. If she's 18 and okay with dating a 26 yr old, i guarantee she has daddy issues/no dad. Tl;dr: Typically date within a few years of my own age, but find myself  really liking an 18 year-old.
But there's just worlds of difference between someone who's 18 and 26.But, I doubt you will do that.But, I was a real, if young, adult.
Now that I'm my ex's age, I truly realize just how unhealthy (and yes, creepy) it was for him to date me. One of the biggest problems with that particular age gap, is that lots of mid-twenties people are ready to get serious, both emotionally, and practically. Otherwise known as, a formula for statutory rape but probably not in your state. She made the choice to agree to sex with this guy and now is pregnant. She seemed nice, we had a good talk but I could tell she was younger.
She's had to do more "growing up" than most people her age, which made it seem less weird at the time. So perhaps you would like to consider ending all the possibilities of getitng with her now, before you become so attached. So you better start planning all the things you're going to say when you hook up with her but have to say "I'm just not ready for a relationship. So, someone who is 26 should definitely be in a different life stage than someone who is 18.
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That I didn't have to deal with my parents' or friends' disapproval, that I didn't have to deal with the drama, that I didn't have to be a mother-figure to two little girls whose father never gave me any authority, that I didn't have to deal with any more bad sex (from him). That means that in NJ, since a 15 year old isn't legally allowed to consent to sex, then it's rape, because legally, she didn't consent. That this was just how I felt.
I personally would say 24 is the MAX limit. I sure as shit know she is not keeping company with a 26 yo man and I don't even see her! I think any two consenting adults of legal age should be able to date regardless of their sex or age. I think that your boyfriend is 100% responsible for his actions and he has a lot of growing up to do. I think you both need to sit down and discuss the issues.
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Dating me (an 18 year old) has really brought out the life in my boyfriend from when I first met him.Do her parents know about this?Don't expect adult things out of me!
I cannot give legal advice over the internet nor can I establish an attorney client relationship with you. I dated a couple of 25-26 year olds when I was 18. I didn't get those while I was with my ex. I don't care whether you made it up or whether some Wikipedia nuclear physicist came up with it after playing with his pocket protector. I don't know if I'd say creepy but definitely getting weird vibes and just wondering 'why?
- Also it freaks me out that she's still in high school.
- And of course throwing in that you want to be a virgin when you DO marry may help things out.
- And three, when we did have sex, he'd constantly beg for us to go without condoms.
- As long as we like eachother so much then.
- At her age, she's barely been driving for 2 or 3 years, barely been working for 2 or 3 years, hasn't started college, probably hasn't had a serious relationship or a long-term relationship, you name it.
- At some point, my friend left to go somewhere, and for whatever reason I didn't go with him.
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Hey, Im 32, and Im dating a 18 yr old woman. However, in 3-4 years, I wouldn't bat an eye. I accepted the expensive jewelry with a thanks and wore the pieces constantly, because he'd ask why I wasn't wearing them if I didn't. I agree with you on so many levels, its that bible belt community that makes "some" feel as if they farted in the bathroom they should be scorned for it. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 26 (and will be turning 27 in 2 weeks =D).
He is weery about it, and i kno the age thing bothers him, because hes always worried about what people will think, my parents know about us and are happy for me, because they know im very mature for my age i got my first place when i was 15 and have lived on my own as a single mother since, i start college in the fall and am goig to be an accountant. He was a big brother, someone to pal around with. He's always telling me how full of life i am and how cool i am;) hihi.
I grew to dread the moments we were alone, especially when I needed a ride home at the end of the night to make my curfew. I hate to say this and I know you hate to hear it, but if he's 26 and dating a 16 year old, then he's a very immature man. I love him more than anything and i wouldn't change my relationship for anyone or anything.
For cryin' out loud give her a promise ring an when you break up tell her to pull it out and give it back. Have you ever pooped so fast you cried? He is 26 which means he is pretty much a pedophile. He is either really immature or a pedophile who figures this way he will not get caught.
- "So, no normal 20 year old wants to hang out with someone who is 15.
- (If you think that dating someone is just the same thing as having sex with them, then you are too young to be dating.
To participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! We are very open with each other and express our emotions and opinions all the time. We both look the same age, so no one suspects anything. We don't want to see you back here in 2-3 years completely heart broken. We have our own place too and even moved to another country (7000 miles away) together.
Some guys are not all that mature by 25. Some people react to it poorly or say negative things, but we are happy with each other and the way we choose to live. Started talking to her because her tastes are outrageously similar to mine, and decided to give it a shot. Starting from $39 - Local, qualified attorneys offer fixed-fee legal services.
- No reason to ask strangers if they are ok with your choices.
- But I was pretty mature for my age--not into drinking or partying or acting like some dumb teenager.
I'd completely accepted her romance with an older guy as normal, even destined. I'd done adult things, like move to a new city with savings, found a place to live, and gotten a job. Id feel weird and as if Im using my life experience to be steps ahead of a naive youth. If it's really, truly "meant" to work out, you'll wait a few years until she's had more life experiences and can truly be an equal in this relationship.
- Be respectful of her parents if she is living at home yet and things should be cool.
- Because i will be 18 i will want to go out and party a lot etc, but im certain that we can get past it and make a compromise.
- Because of that, we got along great and we have been together for a little over a year.
- Before long, we had our own inside jokes, a shared eye-roll at yet another lover's quarrel in a small space.
- But if the 18 year old in question is very mature for her age, then surely that shouldn't matter?
It takes two to get that way. It was not smooth sailing. Its just some choose to hide it some dont. Jay Bodzin is licensed to practice law in the State of Oregon and the Federal District of Oregon, and cannot give advice about the laws of other jurisdictions. Maybe we're talking about each other here!?
You're talking 6 years difference. You've gotten yourself in a world of trouble and you are going to need your parents help and support, so go sit down w/ them as soon as possible and come clean about everything. Your parents are responsible for you, his are not.
Eveyone it does not work out. Exactly the same age difference as my husband and I!
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- After awhile, my friend and her boyfriend disappeared, leaving T.
- All these people talking about different life experiences and maturity levels are correct, but they're talking in the context of a real relationship.
If she's mature then it shouldn't matter, but in most cases I don't think it would be true. If she's not mature mind wise don't even waste your time. If so well then why not let it just be simply that, a fling, not an actual relationship, (and of course both parties have to be happy with this so maybe talk about it to her first what you want out of it) so that way the issue of you both being at differnt points in your life ownt interfear. Im a 26 year old guy will be 27 in a week and a half.
What else do you guys have in common? Where on earth were your parents, my own 17 yo is living in a different city for the summer as she was awarded an internship at the college in that town. Yeah, if you read through it mentions that, at most, I'd only date her for a few months before she goes to college. You do realise that as their daughter you're unlikely to actually find out what's going on behind the scence, or even under your nose if you're used to it and think it's normal.
My biggest concern is her wanting to get serious and not mentioning it until it's too late to keep her from getting hurt. My parents were hours away, and because they disapproved of the relationship, I didn't feel comfortable talking to them about these arguments (when talking to them might have helped me realize that the power balance was off).
Things such as do you both want a serious realtionship (if not, dont make the mistake of getting involved and setteling for less), will you liek to get married one day in the near future, where as she may not as she as younger, children, study- is she attending uni or tafe as an 18 year old so she might be more foccused on that then having a bf, do your parents accept the possible relationship. This is child molestation, and now you are pregnant.
Never mind that it's creepy; I know what college was like for me and I know that there's not a snowball's chance in hell I'd stay with her or she'd stay with me because of how volatile and life-changing those college years can be. No, I don't think I would date a 19 year old, I'm not generally attracted to people so close to my own age. Non-issue for both situations. Not a big age difference. Not much between 25 and 35. Nothing wrong with it lol.
I am concerned about her parents and what they would possibly think, but I'm not worrying that far ahead I mean I don't even know for sure she would be interested in dating me lol. I am in that situation, I'm 19 and dating a 26 year old, he's the committed type and I love him and want to marry him as he askd me to but the problem is will my parents approve? I can't see anything wrong with 18 and 26, just make sure she is actually 18 else you'll be in for a world of hurt.
That's all mature people need in a relationship right? That's only rolling back the calendar a little bit; two years. That's only rolling back the calendar a little bit; two years. The second incident I remember happened when he was giving me a ride home. There are still people in this world that have a hard time understanding that age is just a number, and real true love knows no bounderies. There isn't so much a problem with you as a problem with him.
We have the same interests, both into fitness, the same music and film likes, the same views on a lot of things and are at the same points in our lives (single parents, back at university/college etc). We met a week before my 16 birthday (he didn't know my age or did i know his) When we found out we didn't see each other and just talked for a year. We met on a night out, got talking, and hit it of. We started dating when she was 18 and I was 25.